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This post is part of the Insecure Writers
Support Group (IWSG), a great place to share troubles and triumphs with
fellow writers. To find more blogs on this hop, and to sign up yourself
head over to Alex J Cavanaugh's blog to find out more. He's definitely one worth following.
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About two weeks ago I published a post about the struggles I'd been having keeping up with everything that's going on in my life.
I have study going on, this blog and some writing stuff that I'm trying to make more time for, and they are all things that are important to me. In some way or other they each give me some purpose, providing the escapism I need to help me relax and be myself.
As you well know, there is still the everyday world to contend with. I also have a full time job, as I know many others do, a family and home life all to be juggled too. It's tiring work keeping all those balls in the air, but if you can manage it then it's all worthwhile. After all, if you haven't got to put even a little bit of effort in then it's probably not worth doing in the first place.
I had some encouraging and helpful comments in response to this post, and I want to take this opportunity to say a huge thank you to those that took the time to help me through. I read each comment a few times, taking on board the advice offered and you have definitely helped me to see through the quagmire and find the light on the other side.
I'm continuing with my studies, after all it's only for another four months and then it's finished. There is an exam at the end but that's a whole different bag of worries. I'm over half way through it now so I'm battling on to get to the end. I just have to keep an eye on my workload and not get myself into a massive frenzy.
I get three months off and then the next part of the course starts in October. This will be a creative writing module, which means I will be able to combine my writing with studying. I won't have to feel guilty about doing one over the other.
The point of this post is to highlight just how valuable it is to have the support of others that have either been through or are currently in the same situation as you. That's why I love this monthly blog hop, it's a chance to help out others where I can, and to share some of my own woes or successes with others.
It can be a lonely place, distance learning and writing by yourself, but even if you can't get to a writers group or tutorial, there is a whole world of like-minded (and possibly crazy, or is that just me?) people to help you through the bad times, and celebrate the good times.
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Have no doubt, there are many crazy people around (the good crazy). Balance is a difficult thing to achieve but it is important, in order to not feel guilty as you said. We'll be cheering for you on your exam. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Al, I'm trying not to count the days ...
DeleteI think it's great you got so much support. I feel like the blogging community is one of the most supportive groups around, I always feel so lucky to be part of it! I will be joining Al cheering for you on your examn! :)
ReplyDeleteGreat to meet you through the IWSG!
Hi Julie, thanks for dropping by. It's great to meet a fellow IWSG-er.
DeleteOne of the best support groups I've found has been the writer blogging community.
ReplyDeleteNo matter who you are, there is someone who has either been where you are or is still there and looking for help, too. The experiences of others is a great tool :)
I just hope that one day I'll be able to help others the way I'm getting help now.
DeleteGlad you've found the encouragement to keep going! [g]
ReplyDeleteThanks Lara. It's hard work but I'm getting there x
DeleteThis is what I love about IWSG, and basically blogging in general - the community is so supportive!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you're feeling more positive about it all :)
Thanks Laura, a lot of it's down to the support from all you lovely guys out there.
DeleteSupport means everything. I don't know what I'd do without all the friends I've made in bloggyland.
ReplyDeleteI agree, I'm so pleased to be around such a lovely bunch. Thanks for stopping by.
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